ONE SECOND!!!!!
We have only one second in this world! You don’t believe me, is it not?
But still I would say we have only one second, because I speak from my experience.
2008, February 8. I was coming back home from my Institute. As I was driving through the busy Sea Port- Air Port Road, my mobile rang continuously. Usually, I do not answer to mobile calls while I am driving. But when I found that it was from my home, I lifted the phone. My wife was online, eagerly inquiring about when I would reach home. I replied “within another 30 minutes.”
When I was crossing the Mathandavarma Bridge at Aluva, again my phone rang. I lifted the phone and again my wife was online. I told her that I would be reaching within another 5 minutes.
I reached home and found that my father-in-law was eagerly waiting for me for taking his supper. One of my wife’s cousins was also there. My wife told that father-in-law was frequently enquiring when I would come, and that was why she called me.
Even without changing my dress, I sat beside him. He closely held the hand of my wife’s cousin with his one hand, and put his other hand on my hand. My mother-in-law started giving him wheat gruel, which he used to take every night. As he was taking the gruel he was talking to us. My wife was standing beside us and looking on.
One spoon..........Second spoon........Third spoon......the fourth spoonful of gruel he did not gulped. Instead he kept it in his mouth. So mother-in-law told him to gulp. But he was staring at us and slowly bent upon my shoulders and closed his eyes.
I found that his heart beat had stopped and there was no pulse.
Really we could not believe it.
There was not even a second to allow him to complete the food.
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My neighbor father had woken up as usual and had his usual morning bath, prayer and morning coffee.
He settled down on the sofa in the drawing room. His son was sitting adjacent to him reading the day’s news paper.
He found his father taking a quick nap and did not want to disturb him.
His mother came to the drawing room to remind the gentleman about taking medicine. She had the tablet and a glass of water with her.
She called him. But there was no response.
She went near him and touched his shoulders.
He came down to one side.
Hearing a scream from his mother, the son raised his head from the paper and found his father was no more.
Again one Second!!!!
My close friend Aravindan was comfortably living with family in Surat in Gujarat. He was employed in a company there.
His daughter was studying for engineering in Ahmadabad and son was in school
A few years back during one vacation he went to Ahmadabad to take her daughter back home.
They had planned to go to the native place during that vacation and had finalised all travel plans.
He had applied for leave and that was sanctioned.
All of them were happy.
They were returning home from Ahmadabad to Surat in a bus. His daughter was sitting adjacent to him.
The bus moved and both of them were talking.
After some time she found that he stopped talking and was dozing.
She did not wake him up. She looked through the window and was watching the scenery.
As the bus took a turn, he leaned to her shoulders and she realized that he was motionless.
At first she could not believe. But soon she realized the truth and suddenly scream came out of her throat.
The bus stopped suddenly and people surrounded them.
Again one second!!!!
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The Doctor and family had gone on a holiday outing with their friends and relatives. They had hired a houseboat and decided to spend their time in the Vembandu Lake.
They spent lot of time with fun and entertainments in the middle of the lake.
After the sumptuous lunch, they decided to go back and started their return trip. As the boat was taking a turn, the Doctor climbed up the boat to take photographs.
Unfortunately he lost balance and fell into the lake.
Everyone was watching as he fell into the deep lake.
The boat crew immediately jumped into the water to save him. But they could do nothing, before that the body had vanished and could be recovered only in the next day morning.
Again one second!!!!
A few years back one of my colleagues in the bank, a senior official, went to his native place with family.
Whenever he go to this place he used to swim in the river. He was an expert swimmer and used to swim across the river.
On that day also he jumped into the river and swam.
His wife, son, daughter, brother everyone was watching him swim across the river. He reached the other shore and came back.
As he reached the middle of the river, suddenly he went down.
Everyone thought that he was diving.
He then came up and waved his hands then went down again. People on the shore waited for him to come back again.
But he did not. His body could be recovered only on the next day.
It was a matter of one second!!!
The story of one second never ends.
It continues for ever.
We know his presence through the absence of our most loved one.
We know he was here through the loss of our dearest.
We do not know when he will reappear.
All of us are passengers in a train.
The entry station and exit station are predetermined.
The unsolicited visitor will be at our exit station to take us with him.
Rarely we get prior information before we reach the station.
But it is sure we have to get down at this station.
For some people the journey is pretty long, but for some it is short; there a few who enter and exit soon.
So think of; during this journey, why should we quarrel with each other?
Why can’t we make good friendship and make the journey a pleasant experience; not for us, but for others.
Recollect your own experiences of this one second and share with others and make them understand the value of time.
The time is too precious. It is for doing something good, something creative, and something useful.
Now always this story of one second when you do something.
Then
I can accept my one second with delight.